The Gaaaaaaap !!!

We, humans usually are emotional fools, which gives people easy entry to create the Gaaaaaap amongst two close, understanding, sensible people. Leave aside those who lack these and thus are too vulnerable to attacks. The situation intensifies with this mis communication, leading to no communication.   

          

There used to be a time, when it was neighbours envy, owner's pride but in today's time neighbours confuses, owners fights is what's happening around. The foundation of trust has gone weaker year by year and we, said sensibles have started believing what we hear from outsiders. Then instead of confirming facts, we initiate counter action, leading to no communication.

With due regards, most of us believe they are always right & leave lot of things for interpretation, without communicating to their people. This is beginning of cycle of miscommunication (need to go back to sender - receiver process), which gradually attains level of no communication & creation of wall of confusion. Interestingly, no one generally tries to break the ice along with this wall and clarify since ego comes into picture and thus fight continues......  

Trust me most of the problems in personal & professional life arise due to miscommunication or no communication. One needs to be watchful not to hurt the ego of devoted & dedicated ones due to minor reasons & /or feedback of comparative new connections. Its always good to be straight forward but at the right time and listen to understand. Trust me mere listening also helps & reduces gaaaaaaap.    

     

We all are too busy to kill time over the split milk/ deep dig past/ empathize our said culprit/ rebel and that enhances the gaaaaaaaap, which ultimately leads to parting of ways. Look it is difficult to get good, caring, loving, loyal people but it is easy to distrust them & leave due to minor issues / gaps. No one in this world comes without vices & I strongly believe that one should hold on till few start taking you granted. One may further decide for ignoring three mistakes of each (off course after making them realise softly) so relationship continues.    

One needs to have all six senses open and active besides having own mechanism for validating facts. This becomes a bigger issue with people who have less time & are connected with few only. To resolve issues & mitigate gap one needs to dig deeper to unearth facts. Let us all agree that people manipulate as per their convenience & to their benefits. Taking a cool head in light of best available facts can always open up ways for positive conclusion. 

If not taken care in time, the gaaaaaaap keeps enhancing before the blast happens & we end up with Gone Away Person. Usually people need recognition, respect and attention, unless it is personal relationship where expectation is more and so a positive nod/ pat on back with smile can help instantly till one to one communication happens. Please note this recipe is effective only when executed with in time bound spell.      

           

I strongly believe, most of the problems in life stands resolved if people start talking to each other instead of talking about each other. That's the ultimate mantra for the day. Happy communicating !!!