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Hold Your Patience

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In the erstwhile years of 20th century & beyond...... Even today Here, There, Somewhere, Everywhere..........someone had suggested you and me to keep our calm on or keep patience & probably, we kept. Then came our turn & we suggested someone else to keep patience, which they also did and this chain reaction continues....                         This kept all of us rolling and rolling, creating stronger families & communities across the globe. Infact in our peoples' world, this is an essential element to balance the relationship bridge. In the ups and downs of life, keeping patience intact reflects one's strong personality. It is said that, patience is not the ability to wait but the ability to keep good attitude while waiting, so it has long lasting impact. Thus patience reflects one's loyalty, commitment & belief in other.            Let's understand this at length; Patien...

The Gaaaaaaap !!!

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We, humans usually are emotional fools , which gives people easy entry to create the Gaaaaaap amongst two close, understanding, sensible people. Leave aside those who lack these and thus are too vulnerable to attacks. The situation intensifies with this mis communication, leading to no communication .               There used to be a time, when it was neighbours envy, owner's pride but in today's time neighbours confuses, owners fights is what's happening around. The foundation of trust has gone weaker year by year and we, said sensibles have started believing what we hear from outsiders. Then instead of confirming facts, we initiate counter action, leading to no communication . With due regards, most of us believe they are always right & leave lot of things for interpretation, without communicating to their people. This is beginning of cycle of miscommunication  (need to go back to sender - receiver process), which gradually attains le...

You - You, I - I

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This usually starts with Nowhere   BUT covers Everyone Everywhere , leaving lasting impact on few, creating hell for few yet allowing sensible few to survive.  Any guesses 🤔🤔🤔 I am sure you are confused........., so before one misinterprets, let me clarify that I am talking of " तू - तू, मैं - मैं " - The ancient Indian terminology describing petty arguments or squabbles between two or more people. As per philosophers it is minor conflicts, disagreements or insignificant quarrels between known / unknown people BUT if not handled well can lead to World War -III.               This is ultimate result of a daring act of exchanging words in our daily life where participating parties suffer & viewing parties enjoy (घर में गम, पड़ोस में ख़ुशी). This is every day story of Indian household where both the parties are  still in talking terms . However it is more relevant in case of SAID happily married couples, where one of them is...