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The Gaaaaaaap !!!

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We, humans usually are emotional fools , which gives people easy entry to create the Gaaaaaap amongst two close, understanding, sensible people. Leave aside those who lack these and thus are too vulnerable to attacks. The situation intensifies with this mis communication, leading to no communication .               There used to be a time, when it was neighbours envy, owner's pride but in today's time neighbours confuses, owners fights is what's happening around. The foundation of trust has gone weaker year by year and we, said sensibles have started believing what we hear from outsiders. Then instead of confirming facts, we initiate counter action, leading to no communication . With due regards, most of us believe they are always right & leave lot of things for interpretation, without communicating to their people. This is beginning of cycle of miscommunication  (need to go back to sender - receiver process), which gradually attains le...
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  आइये आज के समय की सबसे ज्वलंत समस्या की बात करते हैं -  Most uncommonly talked yet felt word : FOMO  यानी  Fear of Missing out   अर्थात्    पीछे   छूट   जाने   का   डर   । क्या और क्यों  : यहाँ   हम   कोई   प्रतिस्पर्धा ,  रेस   या   परीक्षा   की   बात   नहीं   कर   रहे   वरन्   वास्तविक   जीवन   की   अनदेखी  continuous  दौड़   के   साथ   पनपते   एक  pandemic  की   बात   कर   रहे   हैं   ।   इस   के   चलते   लोग   मानसिक   रूप   से   बीमार   हो   रहे   हैं ,   उनका  Self confidence  डगमगा   रहा   हैं,  उनका   अपने   आप   पर   से   विश्वास   कम   हो   रहा   हैं😟   आज   के   युग   में    कोई   भी   इस  “ बीम...

The Nice Guy - People Pleaser

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एक हैं अनार, सौ हैं बीमार - ऐसा प्रतीत कराया जाता हैं पर होता कुछ और हैं. I mean Illusion, Illusion, Illusion continues & the world keeps using those who are available to be exploited - जब तक आप काम के हैं, आप का स्वागत हैं 😊. Let's talk about the universal nice guy , who eventually became a People Pleaser by virtue of social environment & few self generated fears.    Who is this Nice Guy - The People Pleaser (PP):   He is a person, who tries to please/ satisfy everybody without being biased. He do not hesitate to sacrifice his time, money, efforts, resources, opportunities & likes to make others happy selflessly. अब आप कहेंगे कलयुग में ऐसे निस्वार्थ देवता कहाँ मिलेंगे - ढूंढने से तो भगवान भी मिल जाते हैं, फिर ये तो बहुतायत में हैं. Key Characterstic Features : Good Listener Use their 5 senses well but speak much less than they listen and absorb.  Truly Yes Man Have not learnt to say no & so is stuck up with multiple tasks in...