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Hold Your Patience

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In the erstwhile years of 20th century & beyond...... Even today Here, There, Somewhere, Everywhere..........someone had suggested you and me to keep our calm on or keep patience & probably, we kept. Then came our turn & we suggested someone else to keep patience, which they also did and this chain reaction continues....                         This kept all of us rolling and rolling, creating stronger families & communities across the globe. Infact in our peoples' world, this is an essential element to balance the relationship bridge. In the ups and downs of life, keeping patience intact reflects one's strong personality. It is said that, patience is not the ability to wait but the ability to keep good attitude while waiting, so it has long lasting impact. Thus patience reflects one's loyalty, commitment & belief in other.            Let's understand this at length; Patien...

DARE TO CHANGE

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Everyone has two options at all the moments - Either FOLLOW or LEAD. Most of us love to follow but 5% of us, the change makers loves to lead and open new avenues. This could at times be equated as DIE (Bear) or DO (Revolt) too. FOLLOWING has precedence, footprints, usually copy-paste, less innovation, proven track record and thus is with lesser hit & trial, so a safer way with stagnant growth. Whereas LEADING has no tried track or success story to follow. It pushes front runners to carve their own way, out of nowhere and thus is more exploring, innovative and satisfying but has own risks and rewards. The magnitude of resultant of high risk actions is always higher - BIG Gain or BIG Loss.                                      The advantage of any out of box strategy can be big and much beyond expectations since that has never been tried and tested. This booster dose of growth can take t...

The Gaaaaaaap !!!

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We, humans usually are emotional fools , which gives people easy entry to create the Gaaaaaap amongst two close, understanding, sensible people. Leave aside those who lack these and thus are too vulnerable to attacks. The situation intensifies with this mis communication, leading to no communication .               There used to be a time, when it was neighbours envy, owner's pride but in today's time neighbours confuses, owners fights is what's happening around. The foundation of trust has gone weaker year by year and we, said sensibles have started believing what we hear from outsiders. Then instead of confirming facts, we initiate counter action, leading to no communication . With due regards, most of us believe they are always right & leave lot of things for interpretation, without communicating to their people. This is beginning of cycle of miscommunication  (need to go back to sender - receiver process), which gradually attains le...
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  आइये आज के समय की सबसे ज्वलंत समस्या की बात करते हैं -  Most uncommonly talked yet felt word : FOMO  यानी  Fear of Missing out   अर्थात्    पीछे   छूट   जाने   का   डर   । क्या और क्यों  : यहाँ   हम   कोई   प्रतिस्पर्धा ,  रेस   या   परीक्षा   की   बात   नहीं   कर   रहे   वरन्   वास्तविक   जीवन   की   अनदेखी  continuous  दौड़   के   साथ   पनपते   एक  pandemic  की   बात   कर   रहे   हैं   ।   इस   के   चलते   लोग   मानसिक   रूप   से   बीमार   हो   रहे   हैं ,   उनका  Self confidence  डगमगा   रहा   हैं,  उनका   अपने   आप   पर   से   विश्वास   कम   हो   रहा   हैं😟   आज   के   युग   में    कोई   भी   इस  “ बीम...